Welcome to the Party

Welcome to WeightLossParty.net – the place to learn how to end the diet wars and have fun getting fit, losing weight, and living your life.

I am Trish Bailey, certified hypnotist, personal trainer, and personal-change coach specializing in healthy lifestyles. I have made it my life’s work to show the world that it is possible to feel healthy, look great, and live a full life, without counting calories, restricting food, or killing yourself in the gym.

Anyone who has dieted knows first-hand that diets simply do not work. Not long-term. Not outside the strictest parameters. Not for anyone who wants to lead a real life.

That’s why WeightLossParty.net is different. There are no diets, no screaming personal trainers berating your every move, and, best of all, no guilt. This isn’t about being thin for thin’s sake. This is about your life – and how you can live it – healthy and fulfilled. So, no matter what you’d like to change, boost, lose, improve or supercharge – I am ready to help you create that success.

Go ahead -  take a deep breath and get ready to leap. It’s all down hill from here.

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Is the Size of Your Waist Making You Dumb?

You know being overweight impacts your health, but did you know it could be taking a toll on your brain as well?

The University of Pittsburgh School of Medicine sure thinks so. Researchers have discovered that an overweight person (measured as someone with a body max index of 25-30) has a smaller and older-looking brain than a person with a normal range BMI.

Their brains are 4% smaller and appear 8 years older than their healthier colleagues.

And if you fall into the obese category (a BMI or 30 and above), you have 8% less gray matter and your brain looks 16 years older.

Yikes!

This type of brain loss can lead to diseases like Alzheimer’s and Parkinson’s.

The good news is that aerobic exercise can prevent this type of brain atrophy, and making healthy diet and fitness choices now can even reverse the process.

I think we can all agree that the one part of our body we don’t want any smaller is our brain. So get smart. Check out the site for some tips and tricks to help you lose weight, and feel free to talk about your weight loss struggles and successes in the comment section.

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Should I Exercise When I’m Sick?

Sick WomanI have had some sort of cold or fly bug for the last month. Seriously. A month. It’s crazy.
So, I’ve been asking myself the question – should I exercise when I’m sick? How sick is too sick? How can you tell the difference between too sick to exercise and just being a bit lazy?

I’ve always lived by the old Above the Neck/Below the Neck rule, though I have no idea where I first heard it. An old body building magazine at the college gym most likely. Here’s the gist:

If the symptoms are above the neck – and minor (things like headache, runny nose, sinus congestion, ticklish throat, teary eyes) I  exercise EASILY – low moderation – and in the fresh air if possible.

If the symptoms are below the neck – (fever, sore throat, stomach ache, nausea, body aches, chest congestion, coughing, etc.) I take the day off.

The rule has pretty much worked as a guideline for me. It’s let me know when to take it easy, when to lay off completely, and how intensely to ramp up the training after a bout of the flu. But this time, my symptoms were all over the map. I’d feel awful one day (exhausted, body aches, fever, sore throat, etc.) and fine the next. Once I’d ease back into some light training (yoga, aikido, a walk), I’d be struck down again. And the cycle would repeat. Can you tell it’s been a tough month?

So, I decided to develop a couple more checks.

Listen to your body

I mean really listen. If you really are exhausted (it feels different from lazy) that’s your body telling you to rest. So REST. Remember, time to rest and recover is just as important to your physical health as your actual work out. Respect your body’s needs and give it time and space to heal. (This seems to be one of the top three lessons I am here to learn this lifetime, so if you have a tip to share, please enlighten me in the comments section below).

Take it slow

If you still aren’t sure how you’re feeling, or if you just really need to move (this is what happens to me), give yourself 5-10 minutes of LIGHT activity. Stretch. Walk. Drop into a couple of yoga poses and see how they feel. If you feel better 5 minutes in than you did when you started, keep moving. Check in again at 10 minutes. If you’re worn out after 5 minutes, pat yourself on the back for listening to your body and go rest.

Eat and hydrate

I tend to stop eating, drinking, and taking vitamins when I’m sick. All of which only serve to make me weaker. Be sure you’re taking in some sort of nourishment regularly. You may not think you need it, but your body is working to fight off this bug. Give it some help.

Check in with your doctor.

The only thing I hate more than going to the doctor and hearing bad news, is going to the doctor and hearing how this thing just needs to “run its course.” But if you’re feeling bad and things aren’t improving, a doctor visit might be a good idea. I haven’t gone, yet. Mostly because I’m pretty sure this is the regional bug that’s going around and that I’ve simply tried to come back too quickly too many times. (I think fighting back tears of exhaustion while doing downward dog is a pretty clear sign you’re pushing things a little bit far).

The bottom line when it comes to answering the question should I exercise when I’m sick is be kind to yourself. Take care of yourself. And come back slowly. Drop the intensity a bit and give yourself some space to recuperate. You’ll be stronger in the end.

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86-Year-Old Gymnast

joanna quaas gymnast

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What did you do last week? Joanna Quaas – an 86-year-old gymnast rocked a gymnastics competition in Germany.

Check it out.

Pretty inspiring stuff, huh?

After you watch, go here and check out the comments section. Notice how many people say something like, “I wish I could do that now” or “I wish I was half as fit as she is.”

My guess is Johanna Quaas didn’t do a lot of wishing to get into the shape she is in at 86.

In fact, I’m pretty sure wishing never got anyone more flexible, more athletic, or more fit.

It’s all in the doing.

Are you tired of wishing for more energy, more flexibility, more health, and more fitness?

Check out my coaching programs. I’ll help you turn that wish into reality. Feel free to share your wishes in the comments section below, and let us know – who inspires you to do?

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Hungry for a Change

healthy woman Don’t you love it when you come across something that validates everything you think about a particular subject?

Isn’t it even better when the validation comes from industry leaders, experts, and cutting edge research?

That’s why I am sharing a link to the video – Hungry for a Change. It breaks down how simple dietary choices can affect everything from weight gain, weight loss, disease processes, and even skin tone. It also offers simple, natural ways to reclaim your health. No pills, no powders, no restrictions. Just smart additions to your day to day life.

Sound familiar?

The part about diet soda alone is golden.

But keep watching ’til the end. They saved the key for the end.

The first assignment I give weight loss clients has nothing to do with food or exercise. It has to do with love. The first thing I have clients do is rediscover something in their life that brings them joy. For most of my clients, this is the toughest thing I ask them to do. For nearly all of my clients, it is the thing that makes the most difference – in their weight loss and in their life.

Why joy? Because most adults have forgotten all about it. They work. They care-take. They pay bills and worry. And they veg out. They think flopping in front of the TV with a bag of chips and a quiet house is joy. They’ve forgotten what the real stuff feels like.

So, I remind them. And I help them find it.

Because giving yourself joy sends a message – both to you and to the people around you. It says that you are someone worth the time. Someone who deserves good things. Someone who matters. Even if you don’t quite believe it yourself. Especially if you don’t quite believe it yourself.

Giving yourself joy is the first step in giving yourself love. Simple, uncomplicated, unconditional love. And love is where weight loss starts.

Watch the video. See what the folks who have lost hundreds of pounds after years of struggle say. Then come back and share your reactions to the video in the comments section below. I’d love to hear what you think.

*I am in no way affiliated with the video, so I’m not making any money from this post. I just like the message and think it’s worth sharing. It will ask you to put in an email address to view the video. You can make one up or simply unsubscribe later. Either way, it will take you to video immediately. No extra anything is required and it is free (at least it is for a couple of more days).

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Site Redesign

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We'll be all fixed up in few days

As you can see, I’ve been doing a bit of design work on WeightLossParty.net. Please bear with me as I work at getting things just right. I will be back with more great contact and a spiffy new look soon. I promise.

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Why Eating Breakfast Matters (Part 2)

The importance of breakfast

Why breakfast is important

Tuesday’s post addressed how breakfast is necessary to jump start your metabolism and provide energy for the day. It also gave some hints for non breakfast eaters to ease into a morning meal. Let’s finish our short series on why eating breakfast matters by tackling the number one question folks trying to lose weight ask:

I want to lose weight. Why are you telling me to eat MORE?

I could talk until I am blue in the face (and often do) about why deprivation diets don’t work, but let’s look at the research instead. 

Gherlin – the hormone that increases hunger and hunger signals is best regulated and suppressed at breakfast. Breakfast actually determines how hungry you are through the rest of the day. Everyone I know who has dieted has one big complaint – they are hungry! Breakfast curbs that hunger – all day long. And if simple hunger suppression isn’t enough to convince you to give breakfast a try, these facts should.

Research shows that people who lose weight and keep it off are breakfast eaters. Not only do breakfast eaters eat less all day long, they are more satiated, and also exercise more than breakfast skippers.

If you are tired, stuck in a weight loss plateau, or frustrated by feeling hungry all the time, adding breakfast to your daily routine may be just what you need to drop those pounds and feel better all day long. Give it a try and let me know what you think in the comments section below.

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Can Chocolate Be Part of a Weight Loss Plan?

valentines

Can I have a piece?


In honor of Valentine’s Day and those lovely heart-shaped boxes of chocolate, I wanted to share a link outlining the benefits of chocolate – and some tips for how chocolate can be part of your weight loss plan. Enjoy – I know I will :-)

Chocolate: A Not-So-Guilty Pleasure

 

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Why Eating Breakfast Matters

The importance of breakfast

The importance of breakfast


I got an email the other day from someone wondering why they couldn’t lose weight. It ended with: “I don’t even eat breakfast. I hardly eat lunch any more. I don’t understand why I can’t seem to lose any weight.” The answer to her problem is right there in her question. Eating breakfast matters (lunch does too, but that’s a different post). Eating breakfast not only determines the amount of energy you’re bringing to your day, it also jump starts your metabolism and has a real impact on the amount of fat your body decides to store (on your hips, thighs, stomach, etc.). So, this week, let’s take a closer look at why eating breakfast matters and address some common complaints about eating breakfast.

I’m not hungry.

I can’t begin to tell you how often I have said these words myself. There’s something about stuffing my face with food first thing in the morning that simply doesn’t appeal to me in any way, shape, or form. It’s very possible that you do not feel hungry in the morning (especially if you are an early riser). It’s also very possible that you’ve trained your body to simply not expect nourishment until a certain time so it’s suppressing its natural responses. A quick reset might involve simply eating a little bit less at night (especially if you eat dinner late or snack into the evening and/or right before you go to bed). Try it for a week and see if you’re a little bit hungrier in the morning.

I don’t like breakfast foods.

You can eat anything you want for breakfast – just keep it healthy and well-balanced. (You want a mix of carbohydrates, proteins, and fats to give you energy until lunchtime.) There’s nothing wrong with eating a sandwich, (turkey on wheat maybe), some rice and veggies, or even steak. Check your leftovers and see what’s available, and play around until you find something that tastes good and fills you up.

I don’t have time.

If time is an issue, start with something simple. A glass of juice and a piece of whole wheat toast with nut butter, a fruit smoothie with yogurt, a hard boiled egg (boil a 1/2 a dozen one night while you’re preparing dinner and refrigerate them for a quick breakfast) and an English muffin, or some cereal (hot or cold – just make sure it’s low in sugar and high in fiber).

The bottom line is that you’re body needs fuel in order to function. Even vital processes like breathing, digestion, and circulation need fuel to work. If you are not providing your body with enough nutrients to run these basic function, your body will slow things down, conserving energy (and storing energy in the form of fat) in order to ensure the body has what it needs to survive. Skipping breakfast means that you are fasting for somewhere between 12 and 20  hours every day. Research shows that your body is simply not burning fat during that time. And that is the last thing you want if you’re trying to lose weight.

Give these suggestions a try, then come back Thursday and we’ll address more reasons why breakfast is important.

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Diet Recommitment Day – The Post Game Show

Anxiety

It seems like the day after the Superbowl is a a huge diet recommitment day. At least the number of emails and phone calls I get goes up on the Monday following the big game. I’m not sure if it’s the after affects of a day spent swilling beer, and stuffing oneself with hot wings and nachos that get people thinking about losing weight, or if Superbowl Sunday just happens to fall at the same time diet resolutions begin to fall by the wayside. Whatever the case, diet recommitment begins again.

And I begin repeating my regular mantra of “diets don’t work.” Their own life serves as proof, yet everyone is desperate for the meal plan, shot, shake, or program that will let them eat a truckload of nachos, sit glued to the television, and still lose weight. Or so it would seem. But after some careful talking, it is almost always revealed that their eating habits reflect what’s going on in their lives emotionally. More often than not, they’re wallowing in a deep pit of anxiety (and the stress of a big social day like Superbowl Sunday can bring that anxiety right to the surface.)

Now, I’m the first to admit that feeling anxious is seriously uncomfortable. It leads to all kind of troubling physical and mental experiences. Palms sweat. Hearts race. That damned voice inside your head jabbers on and on. And we’ll do just about anything to change the internal channel. Some folks will simply start a fight with a loved one, but most of us turn to food to switch the emotional switch – scarf a handful (or bagful) of chips, squeeze a tube of frosting into our mouth, spoon mouthfuls of Ben and Jerry’s onto our tongue…Anything that can be done quickly and immediately. Instead of blindly reaching for whatever food may be directly in arm’s reach, try this technique instead.

Wait. Sit with the emotion for 90 seconds. 90 seconds is exactly how long it takes for the body to process an emotion. It takes 90 seconds for the hormonal reactions stirred up by fear, grief, anger or shame to run their course. Then they simply disappear. (Sure – those emotions may show up again, but they’ll only appear for another 90 seconds. Then they’ll dissipate, and leave you in a different – often better state).

All you have to do is wait. Meet the unpleasant emotion without resistence – and without the chip bag – and it will change on its own. No calories required. Give it a try. The next time you catch yourself reaching for food when you are clearly not hungry, take out a watch and time yourself. Spend 90 seconds noticing how you feel. Watch the emotion change in that time. And notice that it all happens without food. Give it a try, then let us know how it goes for you.


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Can You Make a Green Drink that Actually Tastes Good?

Green Drink

Yummy and Healthy

It seems like every fitness guru is advocating green drinks and green smoothies these days. Has Dr. Oz ever been on an episode of Oprah where he hasn’t talked about his green breakfast drink? The good news is you don’t need some fancy powders or high tech equipment to make a green drink. All you need is a trip to the produce section, a regular blender or a juicer, and a few minutes. If I can make a green drink that acutally tastes good, I know you can to.

Green drinks are great because you can squeeze a lot of nutrients, vitamins, and minerals into one glass. The trick is to go heavy on the veggies and light on the fruit. Green drinks are also low in calories (again, go easy on the fruit), provide a ton of antioxidants, strengthen your immune system and improve the health of your heart. Not bad for a snack you can mix up in a matter of minutes.

So, how do I make my daily green drink? The simple truth is I don’t. My husband does – every morning either before or after practicing yoga. The recipe doesn’t vary much (though he likes Anaheim pepper in his and I don’t). We use this juicer - and it is awesome (you can even juice spinach and wheat grass with it, plus it makes nut butter and pasta). But we have used an old Jack LaLane juicer in the past, and even a blender – which does the job just fine.

Simple Green Juice Recipe: 

1 leaf of Kale
1 small tomato
1 or 2 stalks of celery
2 carrots
1 cup of spinach
1/4 to 1/2 a cucumber
1/4 or 1/3 of an apple – the more apple you add, the sweeter the juice

*Red and Rainbow Chard are also great additions.

 

Experiment a little to get the taste how you like it. If you want it sweeter, simply add more apple or more carrot.

Some days I’m more in the mood for a smoothie – so we tweaked the recipe a little and got this:

Simple Green Juice Smoothie Recipe: 

1 leaf of Kale
1 or 2 stalks of celery
2 carrots
1 cup of spinach
1/4 to 1/2 a cucumber
1/2 banana
1/2 cup of blueberries
1/2 cup of Organic Live Yogurt (I like the vanilla)
A splash of Organic Milk.
(You can also add flax seed oil, psyllium seeds (for fiber), and protein powder if you wish).

Play around with your ingredients until you hit on a combo you like best. When you do, please be sure to post your recipe in our comments section.

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